10 Heart Candle Spells

10 Heart Candle Spells

How to Use a Heart Candle in Spells

Heart candles are powerful tools for love, connection, and emotional transformation. Whether you’re looking to attract new love, strengthen an existing bond, or even empower yourself in relationships, the right color and intention can work wonders. This guide will walk you through 10 spells using heart-shaped candles, each featuring a specific intention and spiritual oil. Perfect for beginners and seasoned practitioners, these spells combine candle magic with Madame Pamita's spiritual oils for amplified results.

Why a Heart Candle for Love Spells?

The heart shape is universally associated with love, emotion, and deep connections, making heart candles a powerful and meaningful addition to your love spellwork. They symbolize not only romantic relationships but also self-love, compassion, and emotional healing. Crafted from pure beeswax, Madame Pamita's Change of Heart candles combine the potent symbolism of the heart shape with the natural sweetness of honey—a classic correspondence for love, harmony, and attraction.

Beeswax is also known for its high vibration and ability to amplify intentions, adding an extra layer of power to your rituals. When paired with the right spiritual oil, herbs, or crystals, and infused with your focused intent, these candles transform into potent magical allies. Whether you’re looking to attract new love, strengthen an existing relationship, or heal emotional wounds, heart candles can help you manifest your desires with clarity and purpose.

1. Red Heart Candle — Spell for Passionate Love 

Beeswax Change of Heart Candle

 

Purpose: Ignite passion in a current relationship or attract a fiery romantic connection. This ritual is designed to channel intense energy and bring vibrant, passionate love into your life.

What You’ll Need:

Steps:

  1. Begin by finding a quiet, private space where you can focus without distractions. Take a few moments to center yourself and set your intention clearly.
  2. Using a small carving tool or pin, carefully inscribe both your name and your target’s name into the red heart candle. Visualize the connection and passion you want to cultivate as you carve.
  3. Take the Fire of Desire Oil and gently dress the candle by rubbing the oil upwards. This motion symbolizes drawing in fiery passion and attraction to your life. Focus on your intention with every stroke. Sprinkle your herbs around your candle, being careful not to place them too close to the flame.
  4. Light the candle with care, and as the flame burns, focus intently on the intensity of your desire. Visualize the warmth of your connection, the spark you wish to ignite, or the loving energy you want to attract.
  5. Allow a portion of the candle to burn each night for 7 days. Each time you light it, reconnect with your intention, letting the energy build and grow stronger with every session.

By the end of the 7 days, trust that your intention has been set into motion. Let the universe work its magic while you remain open to the love and passion you desire.

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2. Pink Heart Candle — Sweet Romance Spell 

sweet romance spell with a pink heart candle

 

Purpose: Draw in or deepen love that is sweet, tender, and nurturing. This ritual is ideal for fostering new romantic connections or strengthening an existing bond with warmth and affection.

What You’ll Need:

Steps:

  1. Take a small piece of paper and write the words “Sweet Love” on it. Place it beneath the candle to set your intention and anchor the energy of love you wish to invite.
  2. Using your fingertips, gently rub the Come to Me Oil onto the candle in an upward motion. This upward movement symbolizes drawing positive and loving energy into your life.
  3. Light the candle on a Friday, the day ruled by Venus, the planet of love and relationships. As the candle burns, focus on your intention, visualizing loving and tender energy entering your life or surrounding your existing relationship. Feel gratitude for the love you are calling in.
  4. Sprinkle the Love Magic Herbs around the base of the candle or on your altar to enhance the energy with their natural vibrational properties. Allow the candle to burn safely until it extinguishes or snuff it out when ready, repeating the ritual if desired.

This simple yet powerful ritual can help open your heart to sweet and genuine love, inviting joy and connection into your life.

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3. Yellow Heart Candle — Confidence for Dating Spell

confidence for dating spell with a yellow heart candle

 

Purpose: Boost your self-confidence and charisma in romantic encounters, helping you feel more radiant and magnetic during social situations. This ritual is designed to enhance your inner confidence and draw positive attention from others.

What You’ll Need:

Steps:

  1. Write the words “Confidence and Magnetism” on a small piece of paper. This acts as your focus for the ritual. Place the yellow heart candle directly on top of the paper, positioning it as a centerpiece.
  2. Take the Absolute Power Oil and gently apply it to the candle. As you do this, close your eyes and visualize yourself exuding confidence and radiance—imagine walking into a room and effortlessly drawing admiration and positive energy from those around you.
  3. Sprinkle a small amount of the Love Magic Herbs around the candle to enhance the energy of charm and attraction.
  4. Light the candle just before preparing for a date or social event. As the candle burns, repeat a positive affirmation to yourself, such as “I am confident, magnetic, and irresistible.” Let the flame symbolize your growing self-assurance.

This simple yet powerful ritual is a reminder to embrace your inner confidence and let your natural charisma shine.

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4. Green Heart Candle — Spell for a Generous Lover 

spell for a generous lover with a green heart candle

 

Purpose Looking for a sugar daddy spell? Attract someone who is ready to spoil, cherish, and support you emotionally, financially, or both. This ritual is designed to set your intentions and open the door to abundance and love. :

What You’ll Need:

Steps:

  1. Begin by carving your intentions into the green candle. Use a small tool or sharp object to etch phrases like “Generous Partner,” “Financial Abundance,” or “Loving Support.” Be specific but keep your words simple and direct.
  2. Take a moment to hold the Abundant Prosperity Oil in your hands and set your intentions for gratitude and abundance. Then, carefully anoint the candle with the oil, starting from the top and working your way down. Focus on the feeling of receiving love and prosperity as you do this step.
  3. Sprinkle a pinch of herbs from the Love Magic Herbs Variety Pack around the base of the candle. These herbs will support your intentions and enhance the energy of the ritual.
  4. Light the candle in a quiet, undisturbed space and allow it to burn for a portion of the evening. Meditate on your desires, visualizing the type of partner or abundance you wish to attract. Repeat this process over three evenings until the candle is fully burned. Always remember to practice fire safety and never leave a burning candle unattended.

By focusing on gratitude and clarity in your intentions, this ritual will help you manifest the love and support you deserve.

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5. Black Heart Candle — Protect Your Heart Spell

protect your heart spell with a black heart candle

 

Purpose: There's no pain greater than heartbreak, and the fear of opening your heart again can feel overwhelming. This spell is designed to protect your heart from being broken while fostering a sense of emotional safety and strength. It will create a shield of energy around you, allowing you to heal and move forward without fear.

What You’ll Need:

Steps:

  1. Take a moment to focus on your intention—visualize yourself surrounded by a protective, loving energy. When you're ready, carve the words “Protection and Security” into your black heart candle. This step sets the purpose of your spell.
  2. Apply the Powerful Protection Oil to the candle. Rub it downwards, from wick to base, to repel unwanted energies and seal your intention into the candle.
  3. Open the Healing Candle Spell Booster Pack and set it up as instructed. These supporting elements will enhance the spell’s power and align it with protective and healing energies.
  4. Light the black candle on a Saturday, a day ruled by Saturn, the planet known for its protective and grounding influences. Let the candle burn while you meditate on feelings of safety and resilience. Visualize the energy of the spell forming an invisible shield around your heart.

Take your time with each step, allowing the process to fill you with a sense of empowerment and trust in yourself. This spell is not just about protection—it’s about reclaiming your emotional strength and preparing for new beginnings.

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6. White Heart Candle — Cleansing and Blessing Spell

cleansing and blessing spell with a white heart candle

 

Purpose Remove negativity and invite blessings, harmony, and positivity into your relationship. This ritual is designed to clear away any lingering energies that may be blocking love and gratitude from flourishing. :

What You’ll Need:

Steps:

  1. Begin by preparing your space. Choose a quiet, peaceful area where you won’t be disturbed. Take a few deep breaths to center yourself before starting the spell.
  2. Cleanse the candle with saltwater by gently wiping it down. This step is meant to clear away any residual negative energy and prepare the candle for your intentions.
  3. Anoint the candle with Bountiful Blessings Oil. As you do, focus on feelings of gratitude, love, and harmony. Visualize your relationship filled with joy and free from negativity.
  4. Set up your booster pack according to the included instructions. You can add additional candle spell booster packs to customize your spell and make it even more powerful.
  5. Light the candle during a full moon to harness its powerful cleansing and amplifying energy. Let the candle burn safely as you meditate on your intentions, imagining the blessings flowing into your relationship.
  6. Once the candle has finished burning, discard the remains respectfully and close the ritual with a moment of gratitude for the positive energy you’ve invited into your life.

This gentle yet powerful ritual can help strengthen your bond and remove any emotional or energetic obstacles standing in the way of a harmonious connection.

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7. Blue Heart Candle — Healing and Reconciliation Spell 

healing and reconciliation spell with a blue heart candle

 

Purpose: Heal emotional wounds, mend a broken heart, or bring harmony to a strained relationship. This spell is designed to foster understanding, forgiveness, and emotional healing for those involved, creating space for renewed peace and connection.

What You’ll Need:

Steps:

  1. Find a quiet space where you won’t be disturbed to perform your spell. Take a moment to center yourself and focus on the healing you want to manifest.
  2. Write a short petition on a piece of paper, describing the healing you seek. Be as specific as possible, whether it’s repairing a relationship, mending emotional wounds, or fostering general harmony. Place this petition beneath your blue heart candle.
  3. Dress your candle with Sweet Reconciliation Oil, gently rubbing it onto the candle while concentrating on your intention of calm and healing. Visualize the resolution or peace you desire as you do this.
  4. Open your Healing Candle Spell Booster Pack and set it up according to the included instructions. These additional elements amplify the spell’s energy and can be customized for even greater focus on your specific goal. You can add other booster packs if you want to further personalize or strengthen your spell.
  5. Light your candle and allow it to burn slowly over several nights. Each time you light the candle, take a few minutes to meditate on your intention. Visualize a sense of mending, peace, and understanding flowing into the situation. Imagine emotional wounds being healed or a strained relationship being wrapped in harmony and love.

As the candle burns, trust in the healing process and let the energy of your intention guide you. Once the candle has fully burned out, you can either keep the petition as a reminder of your goal or safely dispose of it as a way to release your request into the universe.

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8. Orange Heart Candle — Open the Path to Your Perfect Lover 

open the path to your perfect lover spell with an orange heart spell candle

 

Purpose: Remove emotional blocks and open your energy to attract the perfect partner into your life. This spell is designed to help clear your heart and create a bright, open path for love to find you.

What You’ll Need:

Steps:

  1. Begin by carving the words “Open Heart” into the orange heart candle. Use a small, sharp tool or even a toothpick, and as you carve, focus on your intention to open your heart to love.
  2. Take the Open Roads Oil and apply it to the candle in an upward motion. As you do this, visualize any emotional barriers or blocks dissolving. This step helps channel a clear and positive energy flow.
  3. Set up your Romance Candle Spell Booster Pack according to the instructions provided. These boosters enhance the potency of your spell, and you can add additional packs to further customize and strengthen your intention.
  4. Light the candle and sit quietly for a moment. Visualize a bright, glowing path stretching out in front of you, leading you to your perfect partner. Picture yourself meeting this person and the joyful, loving connection you will share. The more vivid your visualization, the stronger the energy you’ll create.

Take a moment to soak in the positive energy as the candle burns, and trust that the universe is aligning to bring love into your life.

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9. Purple Heart Candle — Empower Yourself in Relationships

empower yourself in relationships spell with a purple heart candle

 

Purpose: Step into your personal power and become a more confident, self-assured partner in all areas of your life. This spell is designed to help you channel inner strength and unlock the confidence you already hold within yourself.

What You’ll Need:

Steps:

  1. Begin by setting up a quiet, sacred space where you won’t be disturbed. Write the words “Personal Power” on a small piece of paper, focusing on the qualities you want to embody such as confidence, strength, and resilience. Place the paper underneath the purple heart candle.
  2. Gently dress the candle with Supreme Confidence Oil. As you do this, visualize yourself radiating confidence and empowerment. Imagine situations where you feel strong, self-assured, and in control of your life.
  3. Open and set up your Empowerment Candle Spell Booster Pack according to the included instructions. If you feel drawn to customize your spell further, add additional booster packs or items that hold personal meaning to you to enhance the energy of your intention.
  4. Light the candle each evening as part of a reflective ritual. Spend a few quiet moments meditating on your inner strength and imagining yourself embodying this confidence in your relationships and daily life. Let the flame remind you of the power and potential you already hold within yourself.

Repeat this practice daily for as long as needed to foster personal growth and deepen your sense of empowerment. With consistency and focus, you’ll begin to notice shifts in your energy and how you show up in the world.

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10. Brown Heart Candle — Grounding and Stabilizing Relationship Spell

grounding and stabilizing relationship spell with a brown heart candle

 

Purpose: Call in a stable, long-lasting, and supportive partnership that nurtures emotional growth and mutual understanding. This spell is designed to ground your intentions and focus your energy on manifesting a relationship built on trust, balance, and harmony.

What You’ll Need:

Steps:

  1. Begin by grounding yourself through a moment of deep breathing or meditation. Once focused, gently etch the qualities you desire in a stable, supportive relationship onto the surface of the candle. Use descriptive words that embody the partnership you want, such as "trust," "respect," and "commitment."
  2. Take the Binding Oil and carefully rub it onto the candle, visualizing your intentions taking shape. As you anoint the candle, think of emotional grounding and the steady growth of a long-lasting connection. Focus your energy on what this partnership will bring into your life.
  3. Set up your Tranquility Candle Spell Booster Pack as outlined in the instructions. These boosters are designed to enhance the energy of your spell, and you can add additional booster packs for a more tailored and powerful manifestation. Consider integrating colors or elements that resonate with stability, peace, and love.
  4. Light the candle and allow it to burn slowly. As the flame flickers, focus on the image of deep roots growing into the earth, symbolizing the foundation of your desired relationship. Visualize the qualities you etched on the candle coming to life in your partnership. Let the warmth of the flame remind you of the steady, supportive connection you're manifesting.

Take time to sit with your intentions, knowing the energy you’ve created will ripple outward. Let the spell work its magic and trust the process.

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Learn More About Love Spells and Candle Magic

Candle magic is a beautiful, tactile way to manifest intentions and connect with your deepest desires. With the right combination of spiritual oils, heart-shaped candles, and focused intent, you can attract love, heal relationships, or empower yourself in profound ways.

To learn more about candle magic, check out The Book of Candle Magic by Madame Pamita, as well as Madame Pamita's YouTube channel! 

For more enchanting tools like Madame Pamita’s Change of Heart candles and spiritual oils, visit Parlour of Wonders.

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